Your mother tongue is touch
But society has made you male or female,
So now you can't speak it naturally, normally automatically.
Your mother tongue is sight
But society has taught you vowels and consonants and gutteral stops.
So now you can't look and understand unless like a computer you are given the correct keywords in the correct, inoffensive syntax.
Complexity can't be sustained except through exceptions. Through learnt separations between object and subject.
But this is why your mother tongue,
Is simplicity itself.